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After he failed to cut off contact with his "harem" of admirers, I told him I was going to start dating other people, and I have been.

He contacts me periodically and when I see him, the feelings all rush back and he tells me how much he loves me and wants to be only with me, and the moment we get engaged, he will cut off contact with the other women.

According to him, he is just waiting for me to be exclusive and make him feel secure in our relationship before he will propose.
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…..item 1)…. website … aish.com … Harem of Admirers …

He promises me exclusivity once we get engaged. Should I believe him?
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Sept 22, 2011 / 23 Elul 5771
by Emuna Braverman

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Dear Emuna,

I am so confused. About nine months ago I met a handsome, charming man at synagogue who happens to be several years younger than me. We developed a friendship, which quickly turned into a courtship. He helped me through a very difficult time in my life, and I felt very close to him and grateful for being there when I was at my worst. He has been giving and I generally felt I could rely on him.

However, after we started talking about the possibility of having a future together, I began to notice things that made me concerned. His phone was constantly buzzing with text messages or calls from women, including an "am I going to see you before you leave?" text message before he left on a trip.
We’ve had many conversations about what I see as the big problem of him not being able to focus solely on me, and I have told him that I can not be exclusive with him if he is not honoring that commitment. He seems to love the fact that so many women find him appealing – he is sometimes arrogant about his looks, which might just be masking insecurity.

After he failed to cut off contact with his "harem" of admirers, I told him I was going to start dating other people, and I have been. He contacts me periodically and when I see him, the feelings all rush back and he tells me how much he loves me and wants to be only with me, and the moment we get engaged, he will cut off contact with the other women. According to him, he is just waiting for me to be exclusive and make him feel secure in our relationship before he will propose.

I feel like we are going in circles because I can not imagine being engaged to someone while still having doubts that I am the sole focus of his attention and affection. Am I really supposed to believe that the diamond ring is like a magic wand that will change his personality and way of relating to women?

Meanwhile, there are other men on the horizon who might have potential, but this man keeps dangling engagement and having kids before me. I am in my mid (okay, late. . .) 30s and do want to get married and start a family right away – and he knows that. I wonder sometimes if our differences make him insecure – I am several years older, and also much more established professionally and financially than he is. But when we are together, the differences melt away and I am just so happy to be with him.

Any help you can offer in how do deal with this situation is much appreciated.

— Older Woman

Dear Older Woman,

I think you feel like you are going in circles because you are! It seems that, in a nutshell, he promises to give up relationships with other women once you get engaged and you want him to give them up before you get engaged.

Just based on the information you provided, including the types of messages he receives from other women and his apparent pleasure in them, I would side with you.

You cannot get married expecting the other person to change.

There is a basic principle of people and relationships at work here. You cannot get married expecting the other person to change. You need to believe (because it’s almost always true – and no, you are not the exception) that what you see is what you get. You need to assume that the situation now is the status quo. And it seems clear that it is not a situation you can live with.

If he won’t give up the women now, when you have the most leverage, he certainly won’t give them up after he has secured your commitment.

I believe that he was there when you needed him. I accept that he has many wonderful qualities. But it’s not enough of a basis for a lasting future.

The age difference may frighten him or he may be slightly immature. Or it may be none of the above and he may just be unwilling to relinquish the thrill or ego gratification he gets from their attention. That will not change. Especially if he is as handsome and charming as you describe.

I think it’s time to move on.

— Emuna
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Dear Emuna,

I never thought it would happen to me. I heard other mother’s bemoan their teenage son’s grumpy adolescence but I thought I was immune. My son and I were very close. We could talk about anything. He could laugh at his own mistakes and freely admit his foibles. Overnight that seems to have changed.

Along with the fuzzy beginnings of a moustache, he seems to have acquired a complete disinterest in our home life (other than to check to make sure the fridge is fully stocked with his favorite foods), he barely communicates and is resentful if asked simple questions like “Where are you going?” I’m afraid of losing him. Please help.

— Panicked Mom

Dear Panicked Mom,

Relax (if you can!). What you are describing is so normal and typical; it’s almost laughable (I say almost because during adolescence it is very difficult to laugh). I’d almost say that if he didn’t go through this phase, there is something wrong with him. As difficult as it is, try to be warm and loving, however he behaves. Try not to hover over him and try to grant him as much independence as you safely (both physically and spiritually) can.

Your teenaged son hasn’t disappeared; he’s just in hiding, wrapped in a cocoon of confusion.
And be available. He hasn’t disappeared; he’s just in hiding, wrapped in a cocoon of confusion – and his friends, those other grunting, sweaty teenage boys. But there will be days he wants to talk, days he needs you. You must leave the lines of communication open – and probably your bedroom door as well. The less you allow his outbursts or distance to bother you, the more likely he’ll show up for a cozy (and sometimes even revealing) late night chat.

Adolescents need to be handled carefully (ask the Almighty for help – you really need it here!). This too shall pass. And you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the wonderful human being who emerges on the other side.

— Emuna
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Dear Emuna,

I didn’t grow up religious. In fact I’m not even religiously observant now. But I am developing a belief in the Almighty and working on a relationship with Him. I’d like to pass this on to my children while they are still young and can internalize it. I’d love to spare them all my hard work. Any suggestions?

— Searching

Dear Searching,

I have a few simple suggestions to make a relationship with the Almighty a regular part of your children’s lives. Every morning when my kids leave for school, I say to them “Have a great day. Remember the Almighty loves you. Learn Torah and do chesed (acts of kindness).” (My husband usually adds "And be joyful.”) I think it sets the framework for their day and makes the idea of a personal relationship with a God Who loves them one of its cornerstones.

Likewise at night before bed, when my children were small, we would say the Shema. That alone is a statement about our personal and national relationship with the Almighty. But I think it helps to add more. So we would say “Remember that daddy loves you, mommy loves you…" I won’t bore you with a recitation of all the names of all the siblings and grandparents…and then we would end with “and most of all, the Almighty loves you.” That would be their last thought before bed. Their day was now framed with the thought of and confidence in the Almighty’s love.

Throughout the day you want to teach your children (and yourself and your spouse) to look for the Almighty’s hand. It doesn’t have to be big dramatic stories. It can be the beauty of nature, a parking spot when you need it, the correct change, a chance to help someone in need. Tell over these stories at dinner.

Make the Almighty a part of our daily life and conversation. Then He will be as real to your children as the dinner you serve them every night.

And, like the advice to panicked mom above, ask the Almighty to help you. He has an interest in your success at this goal and if He sees how hard you are trying, there’s a good chance He’ll make the road smoother and the path easier.

— Emuna
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…..item 2)…. website … aish.com … Jewlarious … Jtube: The Twighlight Zone

Is beauty really in the eye of the beholder?

Sept 23, 2011 / 24 Elul 5771

by Jewlarious.com Staff

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…..item3a)…. metrolyrics.com … www.metrolyrics.com … The World’s #1 Lyric Site.

We Are Young Lyrics
Fun.

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Give me a second I
I need to get my story straight
My friends are in the bathroom
getting higher than the empire state
my lover she is waiting for me
just across the bar
My seat’s been taken by some sunglasses
asking ’bout a scar
and I know I gave it to you months ago
I know you’re trying to forget
but between the drinks and subtle things
the holes in my apologies
you know I’m trying hard to take it back
so if by the time the bar closes
and you feel like falling down
I’ll carry you home

Tonight
We are young
So let’s set the world on fire
We can burn brighter
than the sun

Tonight
we are young
so let’s set the world on fire
we can burn brighter
than the sun

Now I know that I’m not
all that you got
I guess that I
I just thought maybe we could find a ways to fall apart
But our friends are back
So let’s raise a toast
Cause I found someone to carry me home

Tonight
[ From: www.metrolyrics.com/we-are-young-lyrics-fun.html ] We are young
So let’s the set the world on fire
we can burn brighter
than the sun

Tonight
We are young
so let’s set the world on fire
we can burn brighter
than the sun

Carry me home tonight
Just carry me home tonight
Carry me home tonight
Just carry me home tonight

The moon is on my side
I have no reason to run
So will someone come and carry me home tonight
The angels never arrived
but I can hear the choir
so will someone come and carry me home

Tonight
We are young
So let’s set the world on fire
we can burn brighter
than the sun

Tonight
We are young
so let’s set the world on fire
we can burn brighter
than the sun

So if by the time the bar closes
and you feel like falling down
I’ll carry you home tonight
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…..item 3b)…. youtube video … Fun. Performs "We Are Young" HD – CONAN on TBS … 4:38 minutes

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Published on Feb 22, 2012 by teamcoco

The good folks from Fun. perform their hit single from their brand new album Some Nights.

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The Saint Detective Magazine (July 1955) … Reverend Bill Proctor — referred to himself as an “indentured slave to the state.” (June 20, 2011) …item 2.. We are not his preferred constituents. (Feb 9, 2012 at 01:54 PM) …
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The Internal Revenue Service, by way of a legal process called garnishment, is taking ,386 from Proctor’s commissioner salary for unpaid taxes based on income generated from 2006 through 2009, according to a June 1 letter from the county’s human resources department.

The county is ordered to deduct ,111 per month from Proctor’s ,130 annual salary until the debt is paid off.
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…..item 1)…. FloridaToday.com … IRS to garnish nearly K from Proctor’s commission paycheck

11:51 PM, Jun. 20, 2011

Written by
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By the end of this month, Leon County Commissioner Bill Proctor will receive a county paycheck that’s significantly less than what he’s bringing home now.

The Internal Revenue Service, by way of a legal process called garnishment, is taking ,386 from Proctor’s commissioner salary for unpaid taxes based on income generated from 2006 through 2009, according to a June 1 letter from the county’s human resources department. The county is ordered to deduct ,111 per month from Proctor’s ,130 annual salary until the debt is paid off.

Proctor, who represents District 1 and also is a political-science instructor at Florida A&M University, told the Tallahassee Democrat on Monday he feels like he’s been served a "humanitarian gut check."

After quoting various Bible scriptures, he said the garnishment may make him a better commissioner. Proctor said he will be more sensitive to the needs of other residents who are living with very little or less compared to previous years.

"I will learn how to fast and learn how to pray," said Proctor, an associate minister at Bethel AME Church on Orange Avenue. "I believe there are a lot of people who make less money than me and they make it. This ain’t doomsday."

Proctor, who hired an accountant to handle his tax returns, said he earns approximately ,000 as a FAMU instructor. He said he may need to get another job to make ends meet.

No other county commissioner is bringing home a garnished check, said county spokesman Jon Brown.

Proctor’s paycheck has shrunk before.

In 2005, his commissioner salary was garnished by the IRS and the U.S. Department of Education for unpaid taxes and defaulted student loans.

According to a previous Democrat article, Proctor owed the IRS ,750 in unpaid income taxes, interest and penalties for years 1997-2002. A federal tax lien, which is a hold or claim on property until a debt is paid, was filed in the Leon County Clerk of the Circuit Court on July 18, 2005.

Proctor also still owes ,017 in fines to the Florida Elections Commission for violations dating back to his 1998 campaign. He was charged with 178 violations, and the Elections Commission sought more than 0,000 in fines. A judge later ordered him to pay the lesser amount.

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In October, Proctor told the Democrat he had no plans to pay the fine anytime soon and referred to himself as an "indentured slave to the state."

When asked if he plans to deal with the election fines in light of his latest garnishment, the four-term commissioner quickly said, "Man, somebody needs to forgive that."

He said the Florida Commission on Ethics voted Friday to write off more than 1,000 in bad debts and fines older than a decade against elected officials. He said the federal and state government picks and chooses who they want to save from outstanding fines.

"The government gives monies to corporations to bail them out, but I’m not in the loop," Proctor said. "I’m the one they take money from, not the one they want to give to."

Proctor said he’s not aware of whether his FAMU check also is being garnished. Although he won’t see a full county check for more than a year, Proctor said, "It’s just money … I’ve been poor before.

"There is nothing I can do to undo what the government can do to me," Proctor said. "They went to my boss and said his check belongs to us."

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…..item 2)…. WCTV NEWS … www.wctv.tvwww.wctv.tv/home/headlines

Posted: 10:35 PM Feb 9, 2012

Animal Control Returns to Wide Road Property

Animal control officers say owner making progress, will return for another inspection next week
Reporter: Mike Springer. Julie Montanaro
Email Address: michael.springer@wctv.tv
[UPDATE] Neighbors Tire of Barking Dogs
Neighbors Tire of Barking Dogs

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Comments are posted from viewers like you and do not always reflect the views of this station.

—by Wide Rd. on Feb 9, 2012 at 01:54 PM
Where is our Southside Commissioner?? Mr. Proctor, care to come do your job? His answer would be NO!! We are not his preferred constituents.

—by MissionStatement Location: county on Feb 8, 2012 at 05:12 PM
Animal Control Division Richard Ziegler, Director Animal Control Protecting Leon County’s Animals & Citizens Mission Statement: Improve animal and human well-being through education, prevention, and enforcement programs and humane animal care and control services for the citizens and animals of Leon County. DOES IT LOOK LIKE HE IS LIVING UP TO THE MISSION STATEMENT….NO.

—by Nice mugshot on Feb 7, 2012 at 09:53 AM
h t t p://florida.arrests.org/Arrests/Christine_Winckelmann_3487363/

—by TOLD YA SO Location: WIDE RD on Feb 7, 2012 at 01:42 AM
THANK YOU ANIMAL CONTROL [OFFICERS ONLY] FOR NOT GIVING UP ON US THROUGH THE YEARS NOT YOU RICHARD ZIG YOU ARE A SCUM BAG LIAR AND AN ANIMAL ABUSER TO FOR ALLOWING THIS TO GO ON FOR 12 YRS OF OUR COMPLAINTS .CHRIS !!! CHRIS !!!! TOLD YA SO !!!

—by BURR Location: wide road on Feb 6, 2012 at 11:34 PM
In response to "dont hate the dogs" Yes we have spoken with her and she is very unapproachable and will cuss at you and has flipped us off driving down the road. Shes not a nice lady thats rescuing dogs. Shes a bitter lonely woman with no regards for others or her many dogs as the pictures clearly showed tonite.

—by another viewer Location: tlh on Feb 6, 2012 at 11:23 PM
Yes, she works for the Fire Dept., no she is NOT at all what is normal for them. She is in the process of suing them yet again. Trust me, they would love to be rid of her! As for the dogs, I love dogs, all dogs, but hers have been neglected for years. She has 2 homes, one of hers and one that was left to her by her mother. The dogs have taken over so badly that they are digging under the foundation and it is on the verge of collapse. Her poor child is neglected and yet she still gets away with keeping him by staying just on the right side of the line. Someone PLEASE rescue these animals and the kid! She is in serious need of mental help!!!!

—by enough is enough on Feb 4, 2012 at 07:42 PM
for over a decade Winkelmann has been breeding dogs, she would place ads in the paper selling the husky/hound mix pups. i havent seen her advertise any of the pups for sale in a few years. she did not adopt a dog from the shelter EVER! she doesn’t rescue, she let them breed. this is a case of a few dogs allowed to breed for 10 yrs and producing offspring. and dont blame the evil shelter for her irresponsibility. she’s been offered several vouchers to get her dogs fixed for years. which she refused to do. and now here we are. a decade and nearly a hundred dogs later…

—-by Anonymous on Feb 3, 2012 at 06:35 AM
there is a nuisance law in leon county that can be enforced if the LCSO wants to,i lived in Tallahasee and had a neighbor that had 7 dogs and they would keep us up all night from the barking so we called LCSO and they came out numereous times and the person ended up getting some tickets.
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I couldn’t find any carrots !! … The 400 Blows (1959) …item 2.. Moody Blues – Isn’t Life Strange …
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The 400 Blows (French: Les Quatre Cents Coups) is a 1959 French film directed by François Truffaut. The English title is a straight translation of the French but misses its meaning, as the French title refers to the expression "faire les quatre cents coups", which means "to raise hell".

One of the defining films of the French New Wave, it displays many of the characteristic traits of the movement. The story revolves around Antoine Doinel, an ordinary adolescent in Paris, who is thought by his parents and teachers to be a trouble maker.

The film is among the top ten of the BFI list of the 50 films you should see by the age of 14.
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…..item 1)…. youtube video … I 400 colpi (1959): scena finale … 5:03 minutes …

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Uno dei finali più belli della storia del cinema! I 400 colpi (Les 400 coups) un film di François Truffaut. con Jean-Pierre Léaud, Claire Maurier, Albert Rémy, Jeanne Moreau – Francia 1959.

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…..item 2)…. youtube video … Moody Blues – Isn’t Life Strange … 7:59 minutes

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Moody Blues – Isn’t Life Strange
Moody Blues – Isn’t Life Strange
Moody Blues – Isn’t Life Strange
Moody Blues – Isn’t Life Strange

Isnt life strange
A turn of the page
Can read like before
Can we ask for more?
Each day passes by
How hard man will try?
The sea will not wait
You know it makes me want to cry, cry, cry –

Wished I could be in your heart
To be one with your love
Wished I could be in your eyes
Looking back there you were, and here we are.

Isnt love strange
A word we arrange
With no thought or care
Maker of despair
Each breath that we breathe
With love we must weave
To make us as one
You know it makes me want to cry, cry, cry –

Wished I could be in your heart
To be one with your love
Wished I could be in your eyes
Looking back there you were, and here we are.

Isnt life strange
A turn of the page
A book without light
Unless with love we write;
To throw it away
To lose just a day
The quicksand of time
You know it makes me want to cry, cry, cry –

Wished I could be in your heart
To be one with your love
Wished I could be in your eyes
Looking back there you were:

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